About selflessness and success

Written in October 2021 in Copenhagen

What kind of title did I choose? Usually the title comes to me first and then I have to deal with what it actually means. As you can see, I now live the feminine principle very consistently ;-). That means I trust my impulses and follow them. And in doing so, I usually come across great new insights that help me move forward. Give it a try, I can only recommend it!

But I'll start from the beginning so that you understand where I'm at mentally right now. I was writing again in the café the other day and I realized that I've taken a huge step forward. I've come closer to myself and what I want to do. I firmly believe that everyone in our world has a reason for being and can make a contribution to society with their work. We are all like small cogwheels that together form a large, effective mechanism. We only work together as a whole. That is why I am so happy about my progress. The more I am with myself, the closer I get to my essence, the more I can make my contribution to society and do so in a razor-sharp way. I believe we find our contribution when we are with ourselves, when we live ourselves and are simply authentic.

But there was one thing I just couldn't solve in my head. How can I make my contribution without having expectations of success? As soon as I know my goal, I want to see an effect and as soon as I want something, I am in expectation. I believe that I can never come into my full power from the energy of expectation. If I expect something (back), then I never give everything I have. I never give 100% of myself and I make myself dependent on others. My joy and energy depend on whether others like it, whether it helps others, whether others give me money for it, etc. I believe the greatest success comes when our intention is pure and out of love. When I want to give to help others. For example, I just love it when I see people being with themselves, living freely and being happy and I can help them come into their full power. That makes me happy. And if I want to do this for a large part of my life, then I need a foundation, including a financial one, that enables me to do this all the time without dying of starvation. It's a vicious circle.

I have found the only answer or solution for myself in the thought that I no longer want to focus on my goal, but on the here and now. I give everything I can in every moment and only in such a way that it feels good. Everything remains in balance. And if it is right, then the universe will support me in this and I will find the people I can support as a result. Without coercion, force, stress and expectation. Because the more I focus on a goal in the future, the more I become tense and expectant. I compare my current situation with my future situation and see the supposed discrepancy. I see how far away I am from my goal and this demotivates and frustrates me. These negative feelings give rise to a sense of lack, which in turn blocks me from giving my all in the here and now. So, the only solution seems to be to give NOW what you can give and live your full joy without compromising or expecting anything from others or yourself.

When I think about it like that, life actually seems quite simple to me again. It's really just about understanding the laws and living by them. You can actually have anything you want as long as you do it out of pure intention, follow the positive energy and commit to it. Nice, isn't it?

At what moments do you block yourself because your thoughts are in the future? Where do you feel a discrepancy and dissatisfaction between your future goal and the here and now? What would it mean for your life if you only focused on doing your best in the moment?