I go all-in

Yesterday I had another great coaching session with exciting topics. Today, while I was walking, I spun out my thoughts and had the impulse to share them with you. There might be something valuable for you :-).

Back to yesterday's coaching session. I was able to start the session in a very positive way, because I'm just doing very well at the moment and I'm very happy with my life. I have been working on myself a lot over the past months. I have been sowing seeds that are growing every day and slowly becoming beautiful little plants. There are a few things in my life right now that I want to develop further. Things I wish to have in my life in the future and qualities I want to embody to become the person I want to be or live as the person I truly am at my core. And I have brought these desires more and more into my life through daily manifestation. How did I do this? At first I just felt them, i.e. brought up the feeling of life that I would like to have in the future, and then more and more pictures emerged, which I gradually embellished. I tell you, I am having so much fun :-)! And in the meantime, so many things have become visible and actually in my life. I am just thrilled how well manifestation works when you do it! It's actually super easy, you just have to go for it!

There are many things in my life now, which is wonderful. The fulfilment of some of my biggest dreams is just around the corner. But I have also noticed that some of them are simply still within a certain distance of me. I.e. they are part of my life, but not yet physically there or not yet factually part of my life. A small example for you: Imagine that in the future you want to spend a lot of your life on the water and spend your time there because it simply does you good. You have done a lot of manifestation work and in the meantime you have found the place on the water where you want to live in the future. You've also found the shop that will sell you stand up paddling in the future and you've found out that your employer would allow you to reduce hours to spend more time on the water. That's just a very abstract example to make it all clear. All the things you wanted are now there, i.e. the place on the water, the SUP and also the time you would need for it. But you are still at a certain distance from them, because you are not yet at the place, you do not yet own the SUP and you have not yet taken the opportunity to use the hour reduction. Now maybe you understand a little better what I mean. And this also includes things that are apparently the decision of others, i.e. where you may only be able to decide 50% yourself. For example, the shop owner doesn't have to sell you the SUP and he has a say in it. And that's the situation I'm in right now: everything I want is there, but not yet physically. I'm not living it fully yet.

I've been looking into what that could be. And actually it's quite simple here too. On the one hand, it certainly takes time to let things mature, although I also believe that if we allow things to come quickly, they can come quickly. We can also slow something down artificially, for example, so as not to overwhelm ourselves and to integrate everything piece by piece. And on the other hand, everything would already be there if I had simply allowed it to happen. What is missing, so to speak, is the last practical execution of manifestation, the last step in the chain: feeling - seeing - inviting - living. The last signal to say YES to everything that I can now see and have invited into my life.

And now it's down to the nitty gritty. I decided yesterday I just have to go all-in. What does all-in mean? For me, all-in doesn't mean taking the biggest risk and perhaps plunging into ruin. That's what we often associate with all-in. For me, all-in means committing wholeheartedly to something and deciding on an option. And that means everything that goes with it. Because everything also has a downside. For example, a reduction in hours would mean receiving less salary and being able to afford less. So I decide completely in favour of what I want to have and thus exclude other options. I accept the fears that come with it, e.g. with the decision to miss out on something else, and I don't let the fears unsettle me any more. I consistently continue on my path towards my desires. That is all-in for me. And it doesn't feel burdensome and risky to me, but very good and easy. Because I am free and a decision brings so much clarity and simplicity into my life. I reduce distractions and concentrate on what is essential for me. And that creates space for enjoyment, to give oneself fully into what one wants and to experience it with all senses, all facets and full attention. And you can see where everything will lead if you give everything and fully engage in it. Not deciding means constant self-doubt, tugging and no clear results. We then experience a lot of energy loss because we are constantly changing our focus and scattering our energy in all directions. Over a longer period of time, this can become very exhausting and also physically and mentally stressful. If, on the other hand, we direct our focus and energy towards one thing, then it can grow. For me, a commitment does not mean a restriction or a loss of freedom, but it means a clear decision for myself and for what I want in life. It is a decision for my dream life with everything that goes with it!

Where are you not yet fully committed? Where are you not yet fully all-in and scattering your energy in all directions or are you always taking two steps forward and three steps back? What do you actually wish for with all your heart? Would a clear decision make life easier? What fears come up for you as a result of the decision? Could you just live with them and still go your way? Would you like to see what happens if you give everything in one area?